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[dawn]

I hate it when you are talking to someone and they ask you a question. And your answer to the question is something that you know they won't like. So you ask them if they want the honest answer, they say yes of course, so you tell them and then you find out that they didn't really want the honest answer. They said that they did but in all honesty they didn't want the truth they wanted you to tell them what they wanted to hear and feel all good inside. I can't stand it because when I say I want the truth I'm not looking for an answer that will make me feel good I'm looking for the truth. I am finding that I may be one of the few people out there who when asking for the truth, honestly wanting the truth.

[Wolfie]

Anyone who doesn't realize that the honest answer won't always be what they want to hear is either a narcissist or naive. Either way, you're doing them a favor because then they're forced to accept reality.